Women Who Dated Toxic "Mama's Boys" Are Sharing Their Horror Stories, And I Need A Psychologist To Weigh In On These

We asked members of the BuzzFeed Community to archer america the strangest behaviour they witnessed from toxic "boy moms." Women specifically had a batch of stories to stock astir dating oregon marrying men who were excessively adjacent to their mom. Here's what they said:

1. "There was a lad I dated concisely successful college. I recovered retired aboriginal that his ma was obsessed with him. I caught them showering unneurotic once. YES, SHOWERING. And that's not adjacent the worst of it. He utilized to get panic attacks and had anxiety. He told maine his mum utilized to cognize what to bash to calm him down. One day, helium had a truly atrocious panic attack, and his mum was successful town, truthful I called her, and she came over. Then she told maine to permission the location for immoderate time. I came backmost an hr later, but nary 1 would unfastened the door, nary substance however overmuch I rang the bell. I took the spare cardinal from the neighbor, went into his room, and recovered him sucking connected her saggy E-cup titties. I near him immediately. I'm inactive frightened to this day."

—Anonymous

2. "She wanted my hubby to get a vasectomy (a long, gross, inappropriate communicative successful and of itself), past told him, 'Do it for Mommy.' He wigged close retired and told her that close determination was the crushed helium was ne'er getting one. She proceeded to archer everyone with ears astatine each household gathering for months that helium either had gotten 1 oregon was getting 1 specifically due to the fact that she told him to. We heard astir it from 10 antithetic people, who each puked successful their mouths."

—Anonymous

3. "I dated my ex (same age) from property 20 to 25. His ma was ever bully to maine until she realized that our narration was progressively getting much serious. She did countless inappropriate things and yet was the crushed I left. We took a travel to South America and shared our itineraries with our families. His ma 'surprised' america by showing up and having a implicit meltdown due to the fact that 'he lone cares astir his girlfriend.' We had to alteration our full itinerary to fell from her. She besides near our dogs tied to a histrion extracurricular successful bid to clang our vacation. She created fake FB profiles utilizing random girls' pictures and would DM her son, trying to get him to 'cheat' connected me, portion simultaneously sending DMs to maine (while I was retired of municipality working) claiming to beryllium sleeping with my boyfriend."

"We tried to spell nary interaction with her, but of course, she refused to respect our wishes and showed up to a enactment we had. The past straw was erstwhile she went into our spot and enactment Nair successful my conditioner. I realized she was ne'er going to stop, and I was frightened of what she was susceptible of. But here's the kicker. She recovered retired that my ex and I were inactive going connected a play travel unneurotic that we had planned months prior. She called the police, gave them the marque and exemplary of her son's car, and claimed determination were drugs successful it, which was implicit nonsense, hoping it would forestall him from getting to the airdrome successful clip for our flight. These lad moms are mentally deranged, manipulative, selfish, and deficiency each affectional regularisation oregon self-control."

—Anonymous, 37, F, AZ

4. "While I was astatine work, my MIL rearranged ALL my furniture. My idiot ex-husband not lone did not archer her I would beryllium upset, but helium besides moved each the furnishings to her specifications!

—Anonymous, 51 pistillate Long Island NY

5. "This feline I dated successful assemblage inactive slept successful the furniture with his mother."

—Anonymous, 53 ATL

6. "My MIL wouldn't devour her nutrient first. When we would spell retired to dinner, she would instantly chopped fractional of her repast and enactment it connected her breadstuff plate, past propulsion it implicit to my husband. Like, don't you privation to devour the repast you ordered?"

—Anonymous, 47, female, baltimore, md

7. "We'd been retired drinking with friends. He'd drunk a spot excessively much. She insisted connected undressing him, putting him to bed, and berating me. That was aft continual disapproval astir the mode I cooked, did his laundry, and everything else. I didn't enactment long. He ne'er recovered anyone else."

—Anonymous, 72 Female London

8. "My MIL walked successful connected america having enactment and gave him advice???!!!!"

—Anonymous, 38 Female Florida

9. "My ex and I got joined beauteous rapidly aft we archetypal met, similar 4 months later. But the archetypal clip I met his mother, astir 2 months earlier we were married, she told him not to wed me. We, of course, did get married. For the archetypal six oregon 7 months, each Sunday was her day. We had to spell implicit determination for dinner. I yet got bushed of that, and we stopped going each Sunday. Then we decided to bargain a house. Imagine my astonishment erstwhile my ex told maine helium had to wide it with his mother. We bought the house, and past I became pregnant. After my lad was born, his parent was beside herself due to the fact that my lad had brownish eyes alternatively of blue. Needless to say, we divorced six months aft my lad was born. He moved backmost into his mother's home, and past she called maine to archer maine that I should instrumentality him back. Didn't happen. I was truthful gladsome to find retired that erstwhile helium remarried, some of his children with his adjacent woman besides had brownish eyes!"

—Anonymous

10. "I dated a feline successful precocious schoolhouse and college, and I liked to slumber successful his varsity set jacket. He didn’t similar his overgarment and didn’t care. His parent wanted it backmost truthful that she could deterioration it everywhere. She didn’t similar maine overmuch either due to the fact that she felt similar I was taking her lad distant from her. I was betwixt the ages of 17 and 21."

—Anonymous, 33 NYC, Female

11. "My MIL would ever locomotion successful connected maine successful the ablution and marque comments astir however my hubby could bash better."

—Anonymous, 39, F, Washington

12. "My niece dated the lad of a ‘boy mom.’ Any clip they went retired to meal oregon a movie, helium had to instrumentality his ma connected a ‘date’ the adjacent night. When helium went distant to college, the ma past rented an flat successful the aforesaid municipality and made her lad travel enactment with her each weekend."

—Anonymous, 44, F, Kentucky

13. "When my boyfriend’s shot squad won the title crippled for a tournament, I headed implicit to congratulate him afterward. His ma was already determination hugging him, and erstwhile she yet pulled distant from him and looked astatine me, utter disgust filled her expression. She looked maine up and down and whispered to my fellow large capable that I could hear, ‘Oh. You’re dating her? Placeholder, americium I right?’ She walked disconnected aft that. I’ve ne'er been much appalled successful my life."

—Anonymous

14. "He talked astir enactment toys with his mom. She offered him hers to usage connected me, and erstwhile helium gave maine the soundless treatment, she told maine it was conscionable a household antheral trait and I would get utilized to it."

—Anonymous, 19, F, NH

15. "My MIL perpetually makes inappropriate comments astir her big son’s looks successful an objectively flirtatious way. I americium made to consciousness similar she wants to vie with maine for her son’s affection erstwhile I americium the wife. Super creepy."

—Anonymous

16. "I was concisely joined to a antheral who had a lad mom. The astir disturbing happening I ever saw her bash was during 1 of his galore existential crises. She came into our bedroom, virtually pushed maine retired of the room, said that she was the lone 1 who knew what helium truly needed, and unopen the door. They were successful determination for astir an hour, and I person nary thought what was happening portion they were successful there, but helium came retired each smiling and cheerful."

—Anonymous, 61, pistillate Nevada

17. "For my wedding ablution gift, I was fixed a container from my fiancé’s ma containing nutrient my fiancé liked. That was it. A container of nutrient for her son."

—Anonymous, 50 F Illinois

18. "My MIL told my hubby that ‘wives travel and go, but mothers are forever.’"

—Anonymous, 43, Female, United States

19. "I would get reminded regular that I wasn’t bully capable for her son. I went disconnected connected her aft she dimed maine retired to my ex-husband for not keeping the location clean. I was exhausted from moving astatine slightest 16 hours successful larboard connected an craft carrier. I told her to get retired of my house, lone to person an email from him saying, ‘Why did you outcry astatine my mom? I wouldn’t bash that to yours.’ Biggest man-baby that I americium gladsome I americium divorced from."

—dazzlingsunflower777

20. "We got joined astatine a authorities parkland 3 hours away. When it was clip to thrust backmost home, my MIL insisted that her lad should thrust with her due to the fact that she didn’t privation to beryllium unsocial successful her car. That was conscionable the beginning. Throughout our marriage, she packed a azygous serving of nutrient astir each nighttime for her lad to eat. He was truthful enmeshed with his family, particularly with his mom, that I ever felt similar the 3rd instrumentality successful my ain marriage. We divorced aft 10 years."

—heroicelephant45

21. "My MIL wore a wedding formal to my wedding. Major reddish emblem I brushed off. Mistake. She past proceeded to endear herself to me. Then BAM. My location was her house, my wealth was her money, and my hubby was treated arsenic if helium were her husband. No boundaries, adjacent erstwhile I defined them for her. I went nary interaction 10 years agone for my intelligence and carnal health. I realized my husband, her son, is the aforesaid person. My advice? Listen to your intuition, people. It’s ne'er wrong."

—grouchyasteroid8011

22. And finally, "A parent I knew looked shocked erstwhile I stated that my hubby and I are precise pleased with our lone girl and volition not effort for a son. She legit looked shook to her halfway and said, ‘I person 3 daughters, and yeah, I emotion them, but I didn’t truly consciousness that aggravated emotion until I had my son. No parent is implicit without a son.’ I conscionable benignant of stared astatine her for a 2nd and walked away, and we ne'er spoke again."

—emmanator

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