Straight Men Who've Had Sex With Other Men Are Sharing Their Experiences, And It's Fascinating

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A portion back, we shared stories from consecutive men who've hooked up with different men. Then, a clump of readers decided to stock their ain experiences. Here's what they said:

Some responses are besides from this thread.

1. "I was successful the wood with my champion friend, and we were retired camping arsenic a benignant of 'boys trip.' There were nary bathrooms, truthful we had to urinate successful the trees. We had to pee astatine the aforesaid time, and helium saw maine pissing, and I saw him. We got truly turned on, and aft that, we conscionable started jerking each different off. We ne'er spoke of it again, and present helium has 3 girlfriends."

—Anonymous, 28, male, Kentucky

2. "I tried enactment with respective antheral enactment workers implicit 3 months. It was unusual astatine first. But I recovered that it was rather pleasurable. Anal enactment portion staying hard was not automatic. One had to beryllium truly stiff to penetrate, I realized. But I came doubly wearing condoms (never gonna beryllium unsafe successful this time and age). It someway made my penis sore aft a while."

—Anonymous, male, 40

3. "I had a cheery workfellow astatine work, and we had joked astir however men springiness amended stroke jobs than women. And helium wanted to beryllium it. At the time, I told him nary due to the fact that I don’t bash worldly with colleagues. A fewer years later, helium near the company, and helium sent maine a substance saying, 'We are not colleagues anymore.' So, I was curious. We met astatine his place. He started blowing me, but I could not truly get hard. Then helium blindfolded maine connected the seat and benignant of enactment my manus down my back. And I loved it. He worked maine up and made maine travel similar I ne'er came before. We did it a mates of times implicit the years, but yet mislaid way of each other."

—Anonymous, male, Holland

4. "I'm 50 years old, I americium joined to a woman, and I person 2 kids. I see myself straight. I person lone been with the aforesaid pistillate sexually for astir 20 years. Before I met her, I was successful a bid of atrocious relationships with women, and went done a play of not ever wanting to day women again, truthful I had aggregate hookups with random guys. I would drink, get horny, and past effort to get laid. I was a bottommost and a top; I gave arsenic overmuch arsenic I received, and I had immoderate of the champion unfastened connection enactment of my life. Am I gay? No. Am I bi? Not close now."

"Would I beryllium into a poly relationship, oregon see opening up my vows to lone men? I don't know, it each depends connected however I consciousness successful the moment, and however I click with that person. I fantasize astir enactment with my wife, but I americium besides human, and having amusive with different radical doesn't marque you consecutive oregon cheery — it makes america human. It means we admit that we tin springiness and person pleasure. It makes america beardown successful our lack of guilt. I admit those years of musky, sweaty pleasance were blistery and satisfying, but I settled down, and present I get laid possibly erstwhile a period if I'm lucky. Explore, person fun, and ne'er regret arsenic a middle-aged antheral oregon woman, each the amusive you could person shared successful your youth. Just bash it safely. Be safe, whoever you are, and labels are meant lone for generic foods successful the market aisle. Real things don't request labels. You tin spot what they are, and if you privation them oregon not."

—Anonymous, 50, male, Port Angeles, Washington

5. "I had my person lick peanut food disconnected my nipple astatine boys campy portion we were wearing lone conduit socks connected our dicks."

Ummagummma

6. "When I was successful precocious school, you could accidental I wasn't precise creaseless with the ladies, similar a batch of people. I had a truly adjacent person with whom I spent a batch of my time. He happened to beryllium bi, but I americium straight. Long communicative short, 1 nighttime we some got truly drunk and ended up doing stuff... We did worldly rather a spot for astir a twelvemonth conscionable due to the fact that I was a horny teen and didn't person immoderate girls to assistance maine get a release."

"I've ne'er really told anyone due to the fact that I conjecture I don't consciousness harmless sharing it with people. I don't find men attractive, but I mean, I didn't caput doing worldly with him conscionable due to the fact that we were truthful close.

It has fixed maine a amended presumption of beingness successful the agelong run, though. I conjecture I mislaid each judgement connected radical careless of their intersexual orientation, adjacent though I came from a blimpish household that would suffer their crap if they knew.

It made maine recognize a idiosyncratic is simply a person... It doesn't substance their sex oregon orientation, we are each quality with fears, desires, hopes, disappointments. We are each truly the aforesaid careless of immoderate carnal differences."

throwaway48205

7. "When I was younger, I had a champion friend. As kids do, we had sleepovers. One night, I retrieve we were playing Truth oregon Dare, and I 'truthed' him astir whether oregon not helium had ever masturbated. Of course, helium did, and helium asked maine the aforesaid question. Of course, I did arsenic well. Naturally, we didn't halt there. That night, helium dared maine to masturbate. I was successful the 'hump my mattress' phase. He thought this was hilarious and told maine I was doing it wrong. I asked him what helium meant, and helium told maine to rotation over. That's erstwhile my champion person jacked maine off. After helium was done, I returned the favor."

"I retrieve waking up the adjacent greeting and feeling disgusting, ne'er wanting to bent retired with him again, but successful a fewer days, we were backmost to playing video games together. In a mates of weeks, we had different sleepover, and we progressively got much and much comfy jacking each different disconnected and conscionable mostly being horny astir each other. Sometimes erstwhile we were location alone, we would conscionable whip it retired and commencement masturbating portion playing GoldenEye 007. We yet started watching porn together, and we started sucking each other's dicks.

Honestly, looking back, it was perfectly awesome, and I don't regret a infinitesimal of it — but the magnitude of shame I felt astatine the clip was overwhelming. It was a concealed that we had that we couldn't let anyone other cognize about... Hell, arsenic this progressed done the aboriginal years of precocious school, we'd proceed our shenanigans portion we had our ain girlfriends.

We ended up falling wholly retired of contact. I'm beauteous definite helium ended up coming retired of the closet completely. Me? I'm straight. Or astatine least primarily straight. The thought of what we did and however taboo it was gets maine going to this day. Guys aren't attractive to me, but stories that are akin to my ain get maine incredibly horny incredibly quickly."

wetbatross

8. "I was a teen astatine the time. My person and I decided to experimentation together. Only did it erstwhile and realized it wasn't for us. We've fallen retired of interaction implicit the years since then, but it didn't truly alteration our narration astatine all. It was conscionable thing we were some funny about."

dj-riff

9. "A feline made a stake with maine successful assemblage implicit a crippled of Madden. 'If you marque this tract goal, I'll suck your dick,' helium said. I made the tract extremity and held him to it."

KCR936

10. "I'm not gay, but I had a intersexual narration with a feline for a year, fto him determination in, and met his family. We wore rings for a while. I was determination erstwhile his parent passed and helped him done that unsmooth time."

11. "Had to springiness it the aged assemblage try. He was a bartender astatine my enactment and a model. He's appeared connected The CW successful a fewer tiny roles, arsenic good arsenic connected a cologne billboard. He's a very, precise handsome man, and I was curious. I didn't bask it, and we didn't get acold into it earlier helium realized it, too. He's a chill guy, though, and it's comic erstwhile I archer girls I've had a hotter hookup than they ever have."

evanjw90

12. "I dated and had enactment with dudes. I ever got called cheery increasing up, but I was beauteous definite I wasn't. I tried it for a fewer years, and yep, decidedly not attracted to guys."

Reckish

13. "I went to a Turkish bath successful Istanbul. I was afloat nude and massaged each implicit by immoderate beardown dude successful a sauna area. Then helium took maine to a ablution and scrubbed maine clean. Strange day."

Cyril_Rioli

14. "I sucked dick and made retired with a bi feline successful committing to a threesome. He was much into maine than my girl, truthful it was conscionable benignant of funny, and we each had truly bully chemistry arsenic friends. That’s however I learned for definite that I americium mostly straight."

TheDerpyDisaster

15. "I got sucked disconnected by a dude and sucked him. Neither of america had gotten laid successful a while, truthful we decided to bash it arsenic a favour to each other. At slightest I tried to suck him, but each clip I got it adjacent to my mouth, I started gagging uncontrollably. I did yet get it successful my mouth, but I conscionable kept gagging, truthful we yet gave up. And that's however I cognize I'm decidedly straight. I couldn't suck a dick adjacent erstwhile I tried."

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16. "I fto a feline who had a crush connected maine springiness maine a blowjob. And I'm not ashamed to accidental it was immoderate of the champion caput I've ever gotten."

Septic_OmniGOD

17. "I made a Grindr relationship and had enactment with my ex-girlfriend's champion antheral friend. I thought I was bisexual and discovered I americium not."

SavantOfSuffering

18. "I sucked a dick. I was drunk, desperate, and bi-curious. After investigating my curiosity, I concluded that I americium so straight."

Vicimer

19. "My roommate successful college, whom I ever had large respect for, had breached his arms successful a skiing accident. Once, erstwhile his woman and now-wife wasn't around, helium asked maine to scratch his ass for him, which I hesitantly did. Immediately, helium complained that helium 'couldn't consciousness anything' done his jeans. Couldn't I astatine slightest interaction him done his undies? Well, I did, and we benignant of got into a rhythm, and I soon benignant of fingered his ass done the fabric. It was similar an intoxicating spell that had flooded america both, and I plunged successful and retired arsenic helium moaned. He came successful his pants aft little than a minute, and we some fto retired exhilarated laughs. Only erstwhile helium asked 'Want maine to suck you off, bro?' I came backmost to world and excused myself."

EPIC_BOY_CHOLDE

20. "I went to a cheery barroom and had enactment with 3 antithetic men. I'm not gay, but I thought it would beryllium rude to crook down men who were hitting connected me. It was the slightest I could do."

Weak_suicide

21. Lastly, "Aside from the wide experimentation I did, the astir important was astir apt from a fewer years ago. My woman had conscionable breached up with me, and I was voraciously horny and thought I would power my intersexual penchant from lone women to men and women connected Tinder. Well, wrong a day, I got a lucifer with a guy, and I was funny capable to springiness it a try. He lone wanted to suck my dick, but said helium was down to fto maine bash thing I wanted successful return. Sounds similar a bully woody to me, truthful I met him astatine his motel room. He answered the sound connected the doorway with nary pants on, and was remarkably little cute than his representation made him look to beryllium successful person, but I was already beauteous committed to doing immoderate cheery worldly by that point, truthful I decided to conscionable rotation with it. I declined the portion helium offered me, took disconnected my clothes, got connected the bed, and fto him suck maine off."

"I retrieve it not being a precise pleasant experience, due to the fact that helium was rather assertive with his method and utilized a batch of teeth. I really had a hard clip reaching orgasm, fto unsocial staying hard. After what felt similar forever, I came successful his mouth, and post-nut clarity kicked successful and made maine privation to nope close retired of determination arsenic accelerated arsenic possible. The connection was inactive connected the array for maine to bash immoderate I wanted aft the refractory period, but I didn't privation to instrumentality around. I utilized his bath to lavation my dick off, got dressed, and went consecutive location and ne'er spoke of it again to anyone. He messaged maine the adjacent time asking to bash it again, and I conscionable blocked him.

2/10, did not similar the casual bisexual hookup. If I were single, I'd beryllium overmuch much apt to bash it with 1 of my feline friends that I americium comfy with, but arsenic acold arsenic I know, I lone person consecutive friends who aren't into that benignant of thing."

AntiTheory

Responses person been edited for length/clarity.

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