"She Caught The Groom Watching Porn": 23 Ex-Fiancés Explain Why They Cancelled Their Weddings Right Before, And Wowww

I precocious came crossed this Reddit thread asking, "People who cancelled their wedding past minute, what happened?" Here's what they had to say:

1. "My fiancé saw maine gardening and freaked out. He said helium couldn’t wed idiosyncratic who did manual labor. Bullet dodged!"

—skalatitude420

2. "After a three-year narration and 18-month engagement, my ex decided helium didn't privation to get joined aft all. 10 days earlier the wedding, helium said, 'You're not overmuch amusive to beryllium astir anymore.' At the time, I was finishing up my degree, pupil teaching, and readying a wedding. Then, 'Oh, by the way, would you caput maine asking retired your best friend?' My ma called each of the radical connected my broadside who were invited, and near the remainder up to him/his family. Apparently, a bully fewer of them showed up astatine the religion connected the date. He ended up hooking up with the woman of a frat brother, they ended up getting large and married, and rapidly popped retired 3 kids, past she cheated connected HIM. I conscionable celebrated my 30th anniversary. Dodged a bullet, I did."

—LostFlute

3. "We had to cancel 2 weeks out. He lied astir serving successful the military, and I travel from a Navy family. When we met, helium shared stories astir his clip successful the army. Fast guardant 4 years to the engagement, and helium is telling radical however helium served successful the Marines. It turns retired that helium took his dad’s Vietnam War stories, changed the branch/country/small details, and would walk the experiences disconnected arsenic his own. After I confronted him, helium chose denial and gaslit me, saying my representation was wrong. I went to my parents for help, and they ran a inheritance check, which recovered nary anterior subject service. They canceled everything portion I packed up each his sh*t, crammed it into his car, and had it towed distant portion helium was gone. Found retired portion doing each that, helium had been cheating connected maine the full time, too. Go figure."

—decepticonhooker

4. "My fiancé met maine for luncheon and slid a prenup successful beforehand of maine 2 weeks earlier the wedding. I would get nothing, ever, and I would person to assistance him instrumentality attraction of his mother. There was nary specified proviso for my mother. He took maine determination to get it notarized, and I refused to motion it. He tried to bargain with me, but I was not having it. I took the formal backmost to the store, kept the shoes due to the fact that they were cool, and canceled everything. He suggested couples counseling, and I went once. The therapist told maine she thought helium had a screw loose. Then helium stalked me."

—Reeeeallly

5. "This was earlier the mobile telephone era, truthful my woman and I got acceptable and headed to the church. At the door, the champion man, the groom's brother, explained that the wedding was off. The groom had met a miss astatine the nine and spent the nighttime with her, and present helium had decided she was the 1 for him, truthful the wedding was off. As the reception was afloat booked and paid for, helium said we could spell to the hotel, person the meal, and enactment for the disco and buffet if we wanted. Most of the enactment colleagues and assorted household members were booked successful there, truthful we went, and it ended up with astir 50 radical having an enjoyable but uniquely awkward evening."

—CountMeChickens

6. "My ex wanted to postpone our wedding time for idiosyncratic else's birthday. Our planned wedding time came and went, and we ne'er regained the momentum. We broke up by the extremity of that year."

—Bromelia_and_Bismuth

7. "Not me, but my aunt and her ex-fiancé. My aunt was recovered to beryllium stealing from my grandma... a lot. Like implicit $50k. And my grandma had dementia, too. My grandma had spoiled my aunt her full life, bought her everything she wanted with nary strings attached, nary substance however overmuch she messed up... but that wasn't capable for my aunt, apparently. She was arrested and subsequently disowned by her family. Her fiancé dumped her erstwhile helium recovered out, and present she is with a overmuch amended woman."

—SassyHeadlessUnicorn

8. "I was engaged for 3 years to a azygous mother. She was great, a fantastic girlfriend/fiancé, and the narration was adjacent perfect. Except for 1 thing, her 8-year-old boy. Over the 3 years, his behaviour was getting progressively worse, mostly astatine school, but helium started to bring the behaviour home. Around my fiancé, he’d beryllium arsenic bully arsenic gold. The infinitesimal her backmost was turned, helium would crook into an implicit terror. He’d interruption things and blasted me, helium would harm my dog, he’d bargain my things, etc. My location beingness was miserable due to the fact that of it; my lone happiness came from erstwhile helium was astatine his father's each different weekend. I was depressed and stressed, which caused maine to summation an tremendous magnitude of weight. I would fastener myself distant successful the chamber conscionable to beryllium distant from him. Then 1 time I realised I could leave, truthful I did."

"Two months earlier the wedding. My household was pissed, her household was pissed, but cipher saw however miserable I was. Fast guardant 2 years, and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been, I’m the leanest I’ve ever been, I managed to unafraid a high-paying job, I’m debt-free with a steadfast magnitude of savings, and for the archetypal clip successful my life, I consciousness similar I’ve achieved something, and I’m arrogant of that. God knows wherever I’d beryllium if I had gone done with the wedding."

—Immediate-Mind-6931

9. "They died. Or truthful I was told. Nope, helium really moved to Japan with his lover, Kraig, and they are ace blessed now. Found that retired a twelvemonth later. Still unsure however to consciousness astir it, but it's a large opening communicative erstwhile I commencement a caller therapist... I'm blessed now, though, truthful it's conscionable portion of life. I besides mislaid astir nary wealth connected the cancellation."

—SirTrinium

10. "I recovered retired helium was surviving with different pistillate successful different state. She was his 'broker.' Not. Additionally, erstwhile radical started uncovering retired astir maine canceling, a antheral person of excavation reached retired to inquire if it was due to the fact that of his cheating. I hadn’t shared immoderate details, truthful I asked what helium was talking about. Turns retired they had been sexting each other. So apparently, helium was conscionable hooking up with anyone willing. I’m nary longer friends with that antheral 'friend.' I near my ex. He stalked me. I prosecuted him."

—kirsten714

11. "I was 18, and helium was 23 successful the Navy erstwhile we met successful Sicily. We decided to elope successful Malta with a fewer of his friends implicit a speedy play trip. I was feeling precise nauseous and blah, truthful helium went retired with the boys the nighttime earlier the elopement. Around 3 a.m., the doorway loudly opens with him successful the arms of his friends, being astir carried. He is DRUNK, and helium is ANGRY. He punched 1 of his friends successful the face, and they instantly looked astatine maine and said, 'This is who you’re gonna fucking marry.' And they left. Meanwhile, helium gets much volatile, and I’m crying. I did the fawn effect that nighttime and past the adjacent day, erstwhile helium was excessively sick to retrieve oregon attraction astir eloping, and past noped the f*ck out."

—Exoticwombat

12. "I knew a feline whose ma died unexpectedly the week earlier the wedding, meaning the ceremonial would beryllium a mates of days earlier the wedding. He was emotionally wrecked and asked his fiancé if they could delay. The fiancé refused and started posting connected Facebook astir however she was being betrayed. At that point, helium formally called it off. Then her parents called him and demanded refunds for their deposits. Bride refused to instrumentality the ring, which had been his precocious deceased mom’s, truthful helium got a lawyer involved."

—escalierdebris

13. "She came location conscionable nether a period earlier our wedding day and ended the relationship. No warning. No fights. No notation of immoderate superior grievances anterior to ending things. Just amazed maine aft enactment and said we are incompatible, and past she was gone. In hindsight, determination were decidedly issues we needed to address, but ending the narration outright little than a period earlier the wedding without discussing things was the way she took. Obviously, the wedding was cancelled due to the fact that of this."

"I randomly met idiosyncratic who knows an ex of hers, and they said that she blindsided him with a breakup, too. She had moved astir of her worldly retired implicit a period prior, and that was that."

—accelerationkills

14. "I realized we would person ended up divorcing wrong the twelvemonth if I’d person stayed, and I REALLY don’t privation to extremity up divorced astatine immoderate point. Also, I hated everything we had planned for the wedding, and adjacent a period out, I inactive hadn’t truly been officially projected to — we conscionable benignant of agreed that we were engaged astatine 1 point, and helium said he’d suggest with the ringing and each that, but ne'er did."

"I should’ve besides known erstwhile the venue we primitively looked astatine permanently closed abruptly, and everything we kept aiming for kept falling through, feels similar a motion looking back. We besides had a kid together, and helium wasn’t a bully oregon contiguous dad, and adjacent little truthful a partner. I was miserable."

—themarajade1

15. "Three weeks earlier the wedding. She told maine she was leaving. Pretty overmuch that was it. No discussion. No follow-up. Just ghosted aft she packed her things. My girl was devastated. Never saw her again. Blocked connected everything. Two weeks prior, she gave maine a paper telling maine however overmuch she loved maine and couldn’t hold to get married. I’ll ne'er recognize it."

—El_Commi

16. "I called it disconnected six weeks retired erstwhile I realized it was each conscionable wrong. Instead of a honeymoon, I took myself connected a 'oneymoon' (one-ee-moon). Best solo travel of my life."

—Jululz

17. "Three weeks earlier the wedding (during Thanksgiving dinner), helium told maine that helium had been cheating connected maine the full clip we were together. After our guests left, I proceeded to destruct his kitchen, and I called a person to travel prime maine up. Three months later, helium joined his girlfriend. The time helium got married, I sold my engagement ringing to my neighbour for $20. Within 5 years' time, his woman had a babe with different man, they got divorced, helium moved backmost to his location state, and I got an email from his sister telling maine that helium had a bosom onslaught portion connected a skis travel and didn't past it."

—rosesforthemonsters

18. "My coworker's champion person was getting joined successful her hometown of Charleston, SC. It was going to beryllium a immense solemnisation with galore successful attendance. The greeting of the rehearsal dinner, virtually the time earlier the wedding, a sobbing young pistillate arrived astatine the rental wherever astir of the wedding enactment was staying. She confessed that she had been having an matter with the groom-to-be for months. The bride was an affectional wreck, and her household mislaid a batch of money, but she decidedly dodged a bullet."

—travelcat33

19. "I attended a wedding wherever the bride didn't show. It appears she woke up that greeting and decided she didn't privation to spell done with it. We ne'er recovered retired why."

—Real-Razz

20. "My ex's household had money. They were going to bargain the location we wanted, successful cash, and we were going to repay them successful full, mortgage-style. We divided up erstwhile her parent started telling america however I was going to renovate the house, what we were going to do, and that. I deliberation it would beryllium bully to unrecorded successful it for a twelvemonth and larn much astir the house. She said, 'If we are paying for this house, you are doing it my way!' I told her I nary longer similar the house. Then, during the wedding planning, the aforesaid thing. We didn't truly person a accidental successful it. Mom was trying to impressment her friends. The accent got truthful bad, we conscionable divided up. Bullet dodged."

—Max123Dani

21. "My archetypal wedding was cancelled 2 weeks before. I realized I had been doing each the readying and work. He didn’t look interested. He wasn’t supportive of my intelligence wellness and fundamentally said helium couldn’t perpetrate if helium didn’t deliberation I’d beryllium live successful a fewer years. For immoderate reason, I dated him for six much months earlier we separated completely."

"My 2nd wedding was cancelled a month-ish before. With that guy, I had an epiphany infinitesimal that I wasn’t successful emotion with him anymore and didn’t privation to beryllium joined to idiosyncratic who didn’t privation to enactment connected himself and conscionable smoked weed each day. The narration was done, and I near him.

When I joined my now-wife, we eloped due to the fact that I wasn’t dealing with each that a 3rd time, LOL."

—anirules99

22. "The aboriginal bride dropped by to sojourn the aboriginal groom and caught him red-handed, jerking disconnected to a porn video. Yes, that's truly wherefore she cancelled the wedding."

—LivingGhost371

23. Lastly, "He said, 'I don’t wanna wed you if you conscionable get fat.' I realized I didn’t privation to wed him."

—probridgedweller

Responses person been edited for length/clarity.

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