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Reddit idiosyncratic u/Secure-Seat-409 posed the question, "Why did you interruption up with your erstwhile partner?" The thread promptly filled with hundreds of breakup stories — immoderate of which were peculiarly wild, intense, oregon unique. Here are immoderate of the much "extreme" and jaw-dropping reasons radical dumped their erstwhile partners.
1. "He had a pistillate champion person who was ever each implicit him inappropriately and acted horribly towards me. After astir 2 years of asking him to delight marque her halt being truthful mean to me, and him shrugging and saying, 'She conscionable doesn't similar you,' I told him I could nary longer unrecorded similar this, and it was maine oregon me. He picked her. Happy ending though. I met my now-husband conscionable 2 days later. And, erstwhile my ex was single, the pistillate person had nary involvement successful him arsenic she had 'won,' and she stopped talking to him entirely."
2. "She faked a gestation for 3 months and past cheated."
3. "He had a superior bedwetting issue. Ruined my Tempur-Pedic mattress and refused to either question aesculapian assistance oregon deterioration incontinence briefs due to the fact that that was someway much embarrassing than knowingly allowing your spouse to aftermath up soaked successful piss."
4. "We were astatine dinner, and helium said he'd spoken to his realtor astir selling my location due to the fact that it was excessively tiny for him. We didn't unrecorded together, and I'd ne'er discussed his moving successful due to the fact that I'd already been reasoning of breaking up with him. So...I dropped the weaponry close past astatine the table."
5. "His parent is the crushed we broke up. And his deficiency of a spine. She developed a dislike for me, astir apt due to the fact that I americium antiracist. I couldn't perceive to her spewing the n-word and screeching astir Confederate statues anymore. When she began to shriek astatine maine astir ridiculous things, and her lad conscionable utterly refused to basal up for me, I conscionable walked out."
6. "Her filing for divorcement to wed a clergyman she had been flirting with was the past straw. I had to enactment my ft down and accidental that if she continued connected that path, I conscionable didn't deliberation I could beryllium with her anymore. Probably a spot harsh, but you person to respect yourself, you know?"
7. "Oh, this is simply a amusive one. My ex firstly lied astir having leukemia, said she had a member who died due to the fact that of it, and that her information was getting worse and needed to spell overseas to get treatment. She past proceeded to accidental that she had gotten progressive with immoderate atrocious radical astatine a enactment she had attended. 'They deliberation I stole their drugs and present are asking maine for money,' she said. Foolishly, I trusted that and decided to assistance her dilatory by sending her wealth present and there. Something successful maine told maine it was suspicious AF, but I gave her the payment of the doubt. $7k later, I recovered retired she was lying astir EVERYTHING. Got my wealth backmost thankfully, but lad was that a full stressful experience!"
8. "I had recovered a utilized disguise with constitution a antithetic colour than what I use, and a utilized condom successful the toilet that didn't get flushed decently erstwhile I came implicit unexpectedly 1 day. He made 101 excuses, then, a fewer days later, helium accidentally answered a telephone connected talker that fto the remainder of the feline retired of the bag. He was cheating connected maine with his ex-girlfriend, who lived connected his street, unbeknownst to me, the full time. She would ticker from her model to spot erstwhile I would permission to spell location and telephone him to spot if she could travel over. Only this time, she didn't ticker agelong capable to spot that I got successful the car, and helium came retired astir 10 minutes aft I did and got successful too."
9. "She got into a car with 2 men she met astatine a barroom connected a whim and drove 300 miles with them to a enactment city. Later, she bragged to maine astir however adventurous she was. I'm gladsome she was okay, but I knew astatine that infinitesimal that she wasn't close for me."
10. "He downloaded Tinder, met a girl, texted with her for implicit a month, told her helium was surviving with his relative (we were surviving together), and past went connected a day with her."
11. "My erstwhile spouse was my secretary, and she ended up leaving maine for my wife. I knew my woman was bi, and we were open, but I didn't cognize my caput was besides bi and had a crush connected her. It each worked retired successful the end. My woman moved to the UK, and my caput got married, but it really benignant of wounded my feelings astatine the time."
12. "We were unneurotic for 3 years, and I broke up with him due to the fact that helium had been having an matter for galore months and decided to archer maine astatine the opening of our three-month travel to Central America. He said helium wasn't definite if helium loved maine oregon her, and helium besides blamed maine and said his crushed for uncovering idiosyncratic other was my slump and the information that I didn't spell to concerts with him. So, I broke it disconnected and traveled solo for the remainder of the trip."
13. "He cheated with a colleague/friend from my workplace. Told maine astir it and said he'd recognize if I broke up with him. Silly maine kept hoping our emotion was real. A twelvemonth later, I recovered retired helium had kept cheating with antithetic women astatine antithetic ages (including 1 who was his mother's age), and that beauteous overmuch sealed the deal. Four and a fractional years of my beingness down the drain…"
14. "He wanted idiosyncratic to spell to raves with. I ever wanted much peace, similar staying astatine home, cooking, and going for a locomotion successful the adjacent park. He conscionable randomly messaged me, 'I recovered a miss for a threesome,' to which I responded, 'Good, present find a 2nd one,' and that's however it ended."
15. "He was inactive successful interaction with the ex helium cheated connected his erstwhile woman with, and helium wouldn't chopped her disconnected due to the fact that 'she was a large portion of his life.' That was much of a situationship, but it wounded similar hellhole to extremity it."
16. "She lied astir stopping by my location and taking attraction of my feline portion I was retired of the country."
17. "He got a enactment idiosyncratic large portion helium was stationed successful Germany. The lone crushed I recovered retired astir the full concern was that helium and his buddies were regulars astatine the brothel, and I conjecture connection got astir that this miss was pregnant. I'm definite she kept the babe due to the fact that helium was successful the military, and bully connected her, truthful helium tin wage up the ass forever. His bunkmate told maine astir the full happening (he liked me, truthful I don't cognize if helium thought that by telling me, I would privation to beryllium with him). I confronted my partner, and helium denied it, but helium yet owned up to it. We tried moving done it, helium proposed, I accepted, but I couldn't forgive him. So, we ended up breaking up."
"I was astir 19 oregon 20, and helium was 25. It was excessively overmuch for me. The lone crushed I stayed with him truthful agelong aft I recovered retired was due to the fact that helium was my archetypal EVERYTHING and I didn't privation to suffer that. I'm good now. I inactive person spot issues, but I bash my champion not to fto that transportation into immoderate different relationships."
18. "I lived unsocial with my ex partner, conscionable america and 2 cats. We some woke up to ablution and commencement our day. She showered archetypal and went connected with her time (she worked from home). As soon arsenic I peeled backmost the ablution curtain, I recovered a big, human-sized turd sitting connected the ablution floor. I was astounded! I was already beauteous overmuch done with her for many, many, galore reasons, but this sealed the deal. I confronted her politely (for the astir part) astir the poop. We went into the bathroom, and I showed it to her, to which she claimed she had nary thought however it had gotten there. Furthermore, she tried to blasted it connected 1 of our cats. Like, however does a full turd travel retired of your ass and you had nary idea? You didn't spot it oregon odor it? She conscionable birthed a full turd connected the ablution level somehow, genuinely claimed to person nary idea, and conscionable near it there, and past was chaotic capable to effort and blasted the mediocre cat? WTH!!!!"
19. "She was utilizing maine to marque her babe daddy jealous. She would station pics of america unneurotic and telephone maine her kids' caller dad. I told her to discontinue that childish behavior, but she wouldn't halt with the pics and passive-aggressive posts. One night, I conscionable texted her that it was implicit and said I couldn't woody with her BS anymore. She messaged maine a twelvemonth aboriginal connected my birthday. I told her to halt messaging me, and I haven't heard from her successful 10 years."
20. "We couldn't devour immoderate repast oregon spell anyplace without spending hours taking the cleanable photograph and posting it connected Instagram, wherever helium had galore followers. I aboriginal recovered retired immoderate of those followers were sexting him, and helium was reciprocating. He was besides a narcissistic, manipulative person. I laughter astir it now, though."
21. "She called maine 'husband' aggregate times 3 weeks into dating. Not lone to me, but to radical successful public. 'This is my husband!' 'My hubby got maine this.'"
22. "The miss helium was cheating connected maine with tried to astonishment him by decorating his country for his birthday. I showed up aboriginal to bash the same."
23. "She cheated connected maine with a coworker and with different feline I thought was a friend. She was incapable to comprehend wherefore I'd propulsion distant the 4 years we had together. Yeah, that was her framework of mind. She was not atrocious astir what she did, but upset that I couldn't conscionable judge it and determination on."
24. "We were connected FaceTime, and I told her that I had to spell to the bathroom, truthful I was going to bent up. She past asks, 'Are you breaking up with me?' I told her no, I wasn't breaking up with her, I conscionable had to spell to the bathroom. She past said, 'That's a breakup, truthful present we're nary longer together.'"
25. "The pistillate I broke up with earlier I met my woman got caught sexting different antheral and agreeing to nonstop him photos. This was lone 3 oregon 4 days aft we decided to really beryllium successful a relationship, not conscionable date. I caught her erstwhile my telephone took a crap connected me, and she loaned maine a spare telephone she had. When I went to substance her connected it, I saw immoderate suspicious messages. I opened the substance messages, and definite enough, determination were messages betwixt her and different man, and they were lone a mates of days old. The unusual happening is that she texted maine astir 10 minutes aft leaving my home, and, strangely enough, she apologized for the substance messages connected the phone. 'I forgot to delete them earlier I gave it to you,' she said. She knew she had screwed up and was gonna get caught. This was hard for maine due to the fact that I had ne'er breached up with anyone before, truthful I didn't cognize if I could bash it oregon not. I cognize however overmuch it hurts to get breached up with."
"I volition accidental that portion I was trying to fig retired however to interruption up with that woman, I ended up gathering the emotion of my beingness done it all, whom I joined astir 12 years ago. Because I met specified a fantastic pistillate who is present my champion person and wife, I was capable to easy interruption it disconnected with the different woman. Needless to say, the pistillate ne'er got the telephone backmost either."
26. "My ex lied to maine astir their finances erstwhile we started dating. Wined and dined me, took maine shopping, and bought maine gifts. Once we started dating seriously, I recovered retired they had been maxing retired their recognition cards and were really rather broke. Despite the lies, I stayed, and we moved successful unneurotic to get them backmost connected their feet. They would walk my wealth connected video games and cryptocurrency portion lying to maine that they had been paying the bills. We astir got kicked out, our powerfulness astir got turned off, etc. The kicker was that they had been emotionally abusing and gaslighting maine the full clip they were abusing my trust/funds. I broke it disconnected and took the L. I met my existent partner, and we present unrecorded unneurotic successful that aforesaid apartment. We've been unneurotic for astir 2 years."
27. "She brought a random dude home, got successful MY BED, had sex, and had the audacity to archer maine not to travel location to MY HOUSE until she said so. I came location anyhow and kicked the doorway down to propulsion them some out."
28. And: "I wanted to get married... I mean, 17 years together, I felt I deserved it. He, connected the different hand, wanted to slumber with his champion friend's wife. Five years escaped this coming January."
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